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St. Paul, Patrick, and Luxury

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Saint Patrick’s Cathedral on 5th and 51st

It was two blocks to Saint Paul the Apostle church, a first, and the congregation was chatty. I sensed it was a neighborhood church and they knew each  other. The choir boomed, and the priest spoke as if he was everybody’s friend.

I liked it there.

I decided my Sunday was going to be a window shopping kind of day. I walked to the West side of Central Park and then down 59th, between 6th and 5th Avenues; the South side of the park. Carriage horses were lined up waiting for business, each unique with decorations.

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One of MANY

Walking toward 5th Avenue, I passed several restaurants and three buildings with Trump above the doors. I wondered how our President-elect was going to work around the conflict of interests with his many businesses. Then, I wondered why it would matter. I saw upscale restaurants with lines of people, and I knew I was not that hungry.

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Continually updated sign on 43rd?

Fifth Ave. was crowded, and people became faceless, to me. I don’t think we saw each other. We were just waves of humans rushing somewhere.

My next stop was St. Patrick’s Cathedral. The choir and personal connections paled in contrast to St. Paul’s, and the service seemed quite mechanical. Maybe because it was my second service of the morning, or, maybe performing eight times on Sunday wears down their enthusiasm.

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Cara Mia on 9th at 46th

Cara Mia, an Italian restaurant on 9th, a first, was a long walk in the cold and wind. I was frozen. Greeted with an overly warm environment, including temperature and ambiance, I asked the waiter if I could stay all day, and he said, “Yes.”

I savored a glass of Merlot, allowed my body to warm, and took notice of my nearly unoccupied surroundings. I wondered how many restaurants were in Manhattan and how they all made a profit. I Googled it and there are an estimated 24,000 eating establishments. I don’t believe we (Cal, my hubby, is coming on Tuesday) will have trouble finding somewhere to eat on Thanksgiving.

I stayed well over two hours. It was luxurious to relax entirely and nourished my body, soul, and spirit.

At 8:00 I joined a writing group called Shut-up and Write, a first. Twelve writers met at a coffee house, and after introductions, we wrote for one hour. At 9:00 we left. The diversity of the group was delicious, and I wrote this blog.

It’s all good.Two Months of Firsts – #3

Written on November 20, 2016

Filed Under: Blog, Dr. J's personal stories Tagged With: 5th Aveue, Cara Mia, St Paul the Apostle, St. Patricks, Trump

Comments

  1. Teena Schaefer says

    November 21, 2016 at 5:14 am

    Another great day for both of us!

  2. Linda Lee says

    November 21, 2016 at 5:40 am

    Cal said today that you now have hot water! I am happy for you. My son and daughter in law were in NYC this weekend. What an exciting adventure for you. Love reading your blog.

    • Jennifer Goble says

      November 21, 2016 at 5:13 pm

      I know Linda Lee – I’m living the life of elegance now – hot water! Thanks for following along…It is a complete gamut of experiences and emotions…Please wire money:)

  3. Patty McFarland says

    November 21, 2016 at 7:06 am

    My heart is jumping up & down for you!!! So happy for you & so happy for me that I get to live your fabulous journey with you through your words & pictures! 😀 Love You!

    • Jennifer Goble says

      November 21, 2016 at 5:10 pm

      Thank you Patty:) I’m happy for me too. Every day is like a new project, and you know how I like projects:) Thanks for coming along on the journey.

  4. Geri Gittings says

    November 21, 2016 at 9:26 pm

    Great, your husband Cal is joining you in NYC. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving! We’re going to the Briarwood.

    • Jennifer Goble says

      November 22, 2016 at 5:26 pm

      Have a great Thanksgiving Geri. I will post about the parade. I’m excited.

  5. Marva says

    November 22, 2016 at 3:06 am

    Sounds like a great Sunday!
    I don’t have enough to pay my share of the national debt! 🙂

    • Jennifer Goble says

      November 22, 2016 at 5:25 pm

      Funny – I don’t either Marva Lee…although I am contributing substantially in NYC:)

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