Honoring our Red, White, and Blue

I love America — unconditionally. Yes, I see flaws; we all have flaws, but she still wins the top prize for the grandest place to live.

On the 7th, I am taking my thirteen-year-old grandson to New York City for his “Grandma trip.” Two granddaughters made the same destination choice in the past. I didn’t try to persuade him to go somewhere else because New York City is my favorite city in the whole world. I never seem to get my fill of the excitement and options.

In America’s climate today, I think anyone who believes the United States has wronged them should visit New York City. Even though I have traveled to many glorious places in the world, I’m always thankful when the wheels touch down in La Guardia.

What my granddaughters enjoyed the most, besides the shopping, were all the different cultures. Everywhere we went, we heard different languages. Ellis Island presented the challenges faced by immigrants as they sought to create a better life for their families. I couldn’t help but marvel at their endurance and appreciate their sacrifices. They gave so much and worked so hard. Today, we would not be living in this great country had it not been for our ancestors who believed in the opportunities America offered enough to risk whatever it took to get here and begin a new life.

I’m certainly thankful for my French, English, and Native American heritage.

As we tried to hit the highlights of the city, my granddaughters were impressed and moved by the 9/11 Memorial. It bellowed the voice, compassion, and fight of America. As we solemnly walked through the museum, we watched video coverage, read detailed accounts, and heard actual recordings of men and women close to death or attempting rescue efforts. Viewing the two reflecting pools with the names of nearly 3,000 killed in the 2001 attack was an authentic spiritual experience–one that lent credence to the honor I feel for living in America.

Every aspect of our diverse country is visible in New York City. I’ve already mentioned the richness of ethnicity, but there are also wonderful samplings of finances, education, culture, art, medical care, architecture, transportation, global cuisine, and technology.

Yet, in the midst of it all is Central Park, 843 acres of paths, ponds, bridges, and even a zoo. It epitomizes the foresight of our early leaders, preserving valuable real estate for the natural enjoyment of residents and visitors.

This Fourth of July, enhance your mental wellness by sharing with others what you appreciate about living in the United States. We all need a reminder to focus on the good of each day—especially the good in our Red, White, and Blue.

She needs us all!

Until the next time: Live while you live.

Jennifer Goble, Ph.D., LPC, is the author of “My Clients…My Teachers,” and the blogger and writer of Rural Women Stories: www.ruralwomenstories.com.