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Newspaper Column, "Mental Matters" published each Wednesday in the South Platte Sentinel Health Section

Look up and around

I stare at this blank screen as the Sentinel submission deadline nears, and all that comes to mind to share with you, my kind readers, is in my future. I usually write about something that happened during the week or something I learned years ago. Today, my mind focuses on the future, which is good. How often do you get stuck in the past? Did you or someone else say or do … [Read more...]

How do you rate YOUR boundaries?

You need better boundaries if you say yes when you want to say no. If people treat you poorly and you don’t address it or step out of the situation, you need better boundaries. If you sense someone expects you to give them your last dollar or the only ten minutes you have free all day, you need better boundaries. If you are more concerned with someone else’s happiness, you … [Read more...]

Think of your mom as I share a little of mine

Whether our mothers are still with us or they have passed, this Sunday, we are thinking about the woman who gave us life and then, in her own way, loved us and formed our foundation Moms are not perfect; we are human, but my mom was married when she was sixteen and spent the next seventy years mothering five daughters, their kids, and their grandkids. She has been gone … [Read more...]

Graduates, decide who you Don’t want to be

Graduates, decide who you Don’t want to be

I am editing and republishing an article from 5-13-I5. Even though I wrote it ten years ago, it still rings true. I give Jeff Haden, using the brand of “Influencer, credit for the cleverly described titles for ten people to avoid. Jennifer Goble (Courtesy photo) As you graduate, decide who you want to be and how you want to act. Your future is yours to mold, and although you … [Read more...]

Thoughts on love relationships

The wrong people will find you in peace and leave you in pieces. The right people will find you in pieces and lead you to peace This quote struck me as interesting and relevant. Enriching relationships is a topic for any age, plus many of us have grandchildren in the age group for choosing lifelong partners. First, using wrong and right people is simplistic, and … [Read more...]

Easter — a Christian holiday with traditions

I’ve been searching since mid-February for a powder blue necklace to wear with my Easter outfit. I have looked in big anchor stores, small boutiques, and garage sales. I found it today and bought it on the spot. I knew it was perfect; it was handmade by a local artist, looked nothing like what I had pictured, and was not blue. Could you not ask me to explain my impulse? I … [Read more...]

Know and be thyself

Forest Gump said, “Stupid is as stupid does.” We can substitute any word for stupid: smart, pretty, kind, fun, wise, sweet, etc. The point of the statement is to focus on the irony. Forest certainly knew he wasn’t like others, but he knew he wasn’t stupid for two reasons: his mamma told him, “Forest, you’re no different than anybody else is,” and he had the concrete, … [Read more...]

This is not pleasant, but it’s not going to kill me

When a person experiences a tight chest, rapid heartbeat, tense arms, sweaty hands, inability to focus, and even fear of dying, it could be anxiety. If you have these symptoms, go to your medical doctor to ensure a physical ailment is not the culprit. This will give you accurate information, not based on fear. It can also help alleviate the anxiety. If something physical is … [Read more...]

Good still happens

What do you do if something extraordinary happens to you–out of the blue? I ask because such an event landed in my checking account on March 10th. I don’t need to describe the boring details, but it involved Social Security. (SS) My reaction was similar to the loss cycle: bargaining, denial, anger, depression, and then acceptance. Initially, I thought, “What? This … [Read more...]

There’s power in purposeful repetition

Life since 2019 has been challenging for me. I guess loss, fear, frustration, and the unknown are everyday happenings as we age—at least in my experience. With what is happening in our country and worldwide, we all could benefit from daily habits or routines that keep us centered, balanced, and authentic. As I try to “Live while I live,” I find a morning affirmation helpful, … [Read more...]

Love is and always has been the goal and the prize

Sweet, compatible relationships are a gift in life. We might be lucky enough to have at least one trusted friend, a like-minded business colleague, a special bond with one or more of our kids, or, as I observed recently, a loving marriage. I was in a restaurant with my family, and a couple I hadn’t seen in a while was seated near me. From my vantage point, I could only see … [Read more...]

Everything from beaches to boulders builds our existence

As March rolls onto my calendar, I question how it arrived at jet speed. For most of my life, I’ve heard March comes in like a lion and goes out like a lamb. I don’t know if that’s true, but the word March gives me hope that spring is nearing. Visions of tulips dance in my head. No matter the season, other visions dance in other heads. I have seven grandchildren, who range … [Read more...]

We are all human, and mistakes will happen

Have you ever made a mistake? If you answered, “No,” you are not being honest with yourself. If you answered “Yes,” you are healthy.  We have ALL made mistakes—sometimes, many in one day. I can’t begin to count the mistakes I’ve made. Mistakes have much value. Big mistakes that cause emotions in our belly are the ones we learn the most from—the ones we remember. Mistakes … [Read more...]

Managing internal and external chaos

With all the political, economic, and global happenings today, I find it hard to express my thoughts and emotions in sentences. It makes “Say the words” difficult even though I know speaking what’s inside me is vital to my mental health. It’s not as easy as it sounds. The dramatic changes that could initially or permanently affect households across our 50 “United” States are … [Read more...]

St. Valentine – Patron saint of lovers and innovators

OMGoodness—It’s almost Valentine’s Day again. Although it’s promoted as a day of flowers, chocolates, kisses, fancy dinners, and romance, it is often a day of pressure and a set-up for disappointment. Domestic abuse is not uncommon on this day of love. On this Valentine’s Day 2025, I challenge you (if needed) to shift your thoughts and begin new traditions—those with a … [Read more...]

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