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Why I write

Yesterday, a woman asked me what I did. I paused because I have always answered, “I’m a mental health counselor.” But, I am retired; I WAS a counselor. Therefore I replied, “I’m a writer.”

She said, “Oh, really, what do you write?” Again, I paused because I write about many things. I said, “I’m an author of a book about my client’s stories and what I learned from them, I write a weekly newspaper column called, ‘Mental Matters,’ I write rural women stories, and I blog. I post them on my website. I’m also in the process of writing a picture book for a forgotten population–senior women my age.”

On my way home, I said to myself, “I’m a writer. Yep, I’m a writer.”

This morning I received an email from the leader of one of my writing groups challenging us to write about, “WHY I write.” I accepted.

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I have been writing out of necessity for a long time. I have Ph.D., and that doesn’t happen without a lot of time at the keyboard. My dissertation, on the topic of women raised with no brothers, was 156 pages of research, qualitative study, and conclusions. I also wrote clinical notes for years and professional papers.

The newspaper column gives me a weekly deadline, so I have the automatic motivation to write several hours each week. But I mainly write to help people. When I had my counseling office, I could collaborate face-to-face with clients to help them improve and change. Once I retired, I lost and missed the ability to offer people different ways of thinking. Writing is one way I continue to contribute.

I also write for myself. It gives me an assertive voice and helps put the pieces of my thoughts in order. I observe the world through external logic and reason, verses internal emotion, and writing connects the dots, so to speak, to create a dimensional picture and make sense of what I perceive.

This morning a woman said, “I love your articles. They are the first thing I turn to when I pick up the paper.” I thanked her and little did she know how comments like hers keep me writing. When I envision someone’s face and hear their kind words, I write for them. 

In one sentence; I write to help others and myself.

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Comments

  1. Noli Aschenbrenner says

    October 21, 2019 at 12:47 pm

    I love your writing!! Thank you! Sometimes it helps me to think outside the box and other times it is simply reassuring. You are a gifted writer and author!!

    Reply
    • Jennifer Goble says

      October 21, 2019 at 2:01 pm

      Noli, thank you. I appreciate your kind words! They keep me writing, and feel good too:)

      Reply
  2. gbvoss says

    October 22, 2019 at 11:18 pm

    If you were the scribe responsible for the miinutes of a meeting, I’m confident that in reading your report I’d learn who was in attendance, their hopes and heartaches, loves, and successes. I would have a connection with each person and fully understand his/her position. I would have laughed and cried with them, and finally, I’d say, “Jennifer, that is one hell of a report! Good job.”
    Yes, you’re a writer.

    Reply
    • Jennifer Goble says

      October 23, 2019 at 12:23 am

      Oh, Burton, I AM a writer! And, I am in excellent company:))

      Reply

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